License to Shine

I adore fall, and public speaking makes me very uncomfortable. And I realize that these two statements seem completely unrelated.

I love everything about fall— the crunch of an apple fresh from the tree, the crispness of a cool October morning, the smell of fire in a fire place— but anyone who has spent any amount of time with me between late September and early November knows that I have one favorite: the buttery yellow, pumpkin orange, and cranberry red of autumn leaves. The sight makes my soul vibrate.20161007_105126

I know that for some, the coming of autumn signals an end— of summer, of shorts, of vacations— but for me fall has always signaled something fresh and new: school years, teachers, projects, and moves to new cities. Nothing epitomizes revelation and creation, both metaphorically and biologically, like the changing fall leaves.
20161006_115235All summer long, the tree basically punches the clock doing its workaday routine. It soaks up rays and pumps sunshine through chlorophyll to produce carbs and plump its trunk. Around the time the fall television season premieres, the nighttime gains a few minutes of darkness and sparks an entire metamorphosis. That’s when the colorful magic happens. The green face the tree had presented to the world fades, revealing yellow and orange personalities that were hiding incognito the whole time. Some, but not all trees have a talent that’s only brought to light, if you will, by the stress of trying to stock up on goodies before winter hits. If it’s one of the lucky ones that can, it concocts then displays spanking new red and purple pigments to protect it while it works overtime at the harvest.

cropped-yellow-orangeThis fall, as you gaze at the swashes of color painting the hillsides and lining the streets, I challenge you to look beyond the hues.

What skills, talents, and dreams are lying dormant but just below the surface in you?

Is there something that you’ve secretly wanted to share or become, but the day-to-day grind or personal insecurities have kept you from allowing its expression?

Is there anything that you hold onto out of habit- an old commitment, a toxic relationship, a belief or behavior that no longer serves you- that if you let go of it, would make room for something different and beautiful to surface?

How can you turn a stressor into an impetus for change?

What could you do to nourish and sustain yourself through the new adventure ahead?

As I mentioned before, public speaking makes me very uncomfortable. I still tend to wake with a slightly sick feeling on random days weeks before I have to present, despite attending over a year of Toastmasters, having spoken in front of a number of groups, and having been interviewed on both local and national television. I’ve always been more comfortable one on one, socially and professionally, but there are things I want to do that require standing up and opening my mouth in front of more than one person or my pets. I know that some of my discomfort stems from lingering tendrils of perfectionism. I keep thinking I’ve successfully weeded it out only to rediscover shoots pushing up through my subconscious and winding around my psychic trunk like kudzu. I’m ready to prune this time. Embracing the wisdom of the changing leaves, I’m willing to let go of the need to be perfect, and I’m committed to doing a number of speaking engagements and workshops this fall. The truth is, I’m really excited about the topics and the activities, and I’m eager to get out of my own way.

In the big cycle of life, the season of change will approach again and again, by choice or by chance. In the middle of that sometimes uncomfortable juncture between what is and what will be, I invite you to go within and find what you need to reach outwards and upwards. Then embrace transformation. Go for the gold, and what the heck, maybe toss in a few bold splashes of red, while you’re at it. cropped-hillsideBe well.

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6 thoughts on “License to Shine

  1. Such an inspiring article Lise! Now you’ve got me thinking – what can I let go of? Which stressor can I use as an impetus for change….oh wait! I know the answer to that one 🙂 Nourish myself ? – ahhh – now that I need to thoughtfully consider! : )

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  2. Wow Lise, Such rich thoughts combined with a beautiful flow of words. It gave me a confirmation that my passion to help others with career and job searches needs to be explored again. The pictures painted in words brought me back to memories of New England autumns. You have such a gifted craftsmanship with the written word. Thanks for blessing my life.


    • Thank you for the kind words, John. I love that reading it brought up some dormant passions and talents for you hidden just below the surface. I invite you to embrace and explore all the layers of your being. Be well.


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